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Posted on May 6, 2025May 6, 2025

Pelvic Pain & Libido Yapping

Posted on April 1, 2025May 5, 2025

The Way Out

Posted on March 17, 2025April 1, 2025

We Listen and We Don’t Judge

Posted on February 4, 2025February 4, 2025

Advocacy Anxiety

Posted on November 6, 2024February 4, 2025

I’m Tired

Posted on October 7, 2024February 4, 2025

“But I didn’t mean to”

Posted on September 4, 2024February 4, 2025

How to Find the Right Counselor

Posted on May 27, 2024February 4, 2025

Anhedonia

Posted on January 30, 2024February 8, 2024

The Poisoned Well

Posted on January 7, 2024February 8, 2024

WAP

Posted on October 9, 2023October 27, 2023

Y2K & Body Image

Posted on September 21, 2023October 9, 2023

People-Pleasing and Consent

Posted on July 25, 2023October 12, 2023

The Rise of “Therapy Speak”

Posted on May 14, 2023October 9, 2023

Hermeneutic Labor

Posted on April 27, 2023February 4, 2025

Things your therapist wants you to know

Posted on March 21, 2023April 27, 2023

Chaining

Posted on December 31, 2022December 31, 2022

My 2022 Reading List

Posted on November 19, 2022November 22, 2022

Let Loose

Posted on October 13, 2022November 19, 2022

What to do when sex hurts

Posted on September 26, 2022November 19, 2022

The Death Grip

Posted on August 16, 2022August 8, 2022

Reframing

Posted on July 30, 2022August 15, 2022

You probably want to be having queer sex

Posted on July 15, 2022July 12, 2022

Money Guilt

Posted on June 29, 2022July 11, 2022

I stand with you.

Posted on June 15, 2022September 6, 2022

Trans 101

Posted on May 31, 2022May 27, 2022

My Relationship with Sex

Posted on May 9, 2022May 9, 2022

Making Space — being an adept active listener

Posted on April 18, 2022May 9, 2022

The “Cool Girl”

Posted on March 31, 2022March 13, 2022

Fawn

Posted on March 10, 2022October 27, 2023

Weaponized Incompetence and Emotional Labor

Posted on January 18, 2022November 17, 2022

STOP comparing your sex life

Posted on December 31, 2021January 2, 2022

My Kind of Sexy

Posted on December 5, 2021December 5, 2021

“What do you like?”

Posted on October 22, 2021August 3, 2022

All things Health Insurance

Posted on October 6, 2021May 25, 2022

So you have herpes. Now what?

Posted on September 26, 2021September 26, 2021

Snail Mail: An anxious introvert’s ideal form of communication

Posted on May 31, 2021June 15, 2021

The Art of the Grey Rock

Posted on May 15, 2021April 21, 2021

A Different Kind of Love Triangle

Posted on April 21, 2021November 19, 2022

Communicating about sexual pain when dating

Posted on April 6, 2021April 7, 2021

Crafting Worthwhile Apologies

Posted on March 17, 2021March 17, 2021

Building Emotional Intelligence

Posted on February 22, 2021February 23, 2021

Polyvagal Theory – Stress, Trauma, and Enlightenment

Posted on February 11, 2021February 11, 2021

“It’s hard for me to let go during sex.”

Posted on January 29, 2021January 29, 2021

Why Can’t I Pay Attention to Anything Anymore?

Posted on January 10, 2021October 14, 2021

Body Image in the Age of Zoom

Posted on January 6, 2021January 6, 2021

Come home to yourself

Posted on December 25, 2020October 14, 2021

Desire

Posted on December 11, 2020January 5, 2021

Apply for that job anyway

Posted on November 22, 2020January 6, 2021

Realistic, Local Ideas to Revisit Nature

Posted on October 13, 2020January 5, 2021

Let’s Journal

Posted on August 21, 2020March 16, 2023

P U S S Y

Posted on August 4, 2020January 5, 2021

Please leave your house

Posted on June 14, 2020January 5, 2021

The Stress Response

Posted on May 21, 2020October 14, 2021

My Sexual History

Posted on April 16, 2020November 8, 2022

Attention and Procrastination

Posted on March 11, 2020November 22, 2022

Pelvic Pain Survival Guide

Posted on March 9, 2020January 5, 2021

Over-monitoring

Posted on February 20, 2020January 5, 2021

Let’s Talk About Money

Posted on February 10, 2020October 14, 2021

Sex is not a performance

Posted on January 30, 2020January 5, 2021

Getting Bi

Posted on January 22, 2020January 5, 2021

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